Dear Facebook, I understand that you use some fancy algorithm to recognize my interests and post ads relevant to me. I wish there was some way for your fancy algorithm to recognize the term babyloss. Maybe, then, instead of ads for diapers featuring healthy babies, you’ll show ads for baby caskets.
Dear Pinterest, I can see you got savvy like facebook and started putting random “related pins” in my feed. So now I get to see random photos of nurseries even though I’ve unfollowed all my friend’s baby boards. I cant “unfollow” these related pins. Maybe your algorithm will figure out that I’ve been pinning resources for grief and bereavement and will start showing related pins that are actually useful, rather than painful reminders of what I don’t have.
Dear whatever mailing list I somehow got on, please stop sending me envelopes with babies on them. There is no baby in this home.
Stop presuming that everyone takes her baby home from the hospital. Tell me where is the box that says “my baby spent her entire life in the NICU?” What box do I check? I didn’t want to take your dumb survey anyways
Dear world, i’m tired. Please give me a break.